Choose your partner wisely
Oct 20
Many of us can be accused of being quite superficial when it comes to dating and relationships. Often we will choose someone based on physical characteristics and maybe a specific talent that our intended partner might possess. However, jagged rocks lay under your love boat if you navigate in these shallow waters alone. Abide by the following map and you will sail into calmer seas and choose a...
Are you ready for a relationship?
Oct 20
Most people believe they are ready. However, allow me to ask a few questions to see if you or your partner has what it takes to embark on a relationship. - Do you like the person you are? This is the most important factor as to whether you are ready to be in a relationship. Liking who you are determines whether your prospective partner also likes who you are. Your self-esteem...
The pros and cons of internet dating
Oct 14
In recent years, there has been a shift in the way in which online dating is seen. No longer is it seen as the preserve of the lonely and desperate, rather in a world that seems to leave no time for self, online dating has become a more convenient way of finding love. Here are some interesting statistics: In 2010, 17% of couples who got married met on a dating site. o 1 in 5 singles have...
Women: Are your relationship problems your fault?
Oct 12
In this article I want to help women focus on the root of many dating and relationship issues that may arise in life that prevents happiness when it comes to love. Understand this, your previous tactics for finding a good man has probably failed if you are reading this. Therefore, it stands to reason that you need to change your tactics; otherwise you will continue getting the same results. If...
Passive men fail in relationships
May 06
In this article, I want to discuss an issue that gets very little attention and yet can be the source of major problems in relationships; and that is, passivity in men. For the purpose of our discussion, let us define the meaning of the word passive. Passive: not participating readily or actively; inactive: a passive member of a committee.- Dictionary.com Therefore a passive man is one...
Mistakes men should avoid on a first date
May 06
So you’ve met a woman you like and you plan to go on a date with her. Hold on there Mr Loverman, before you go off to make her yours, consider the following: The first thing I want you to remember is that you must NOT be passive as a man. Passive men fail in relationships In other words, once you and the lady have decided on a day/time to meet, it is your responsibility to...
Mistakes women should avoid on a first date
Apr 13
So you’ve met a man that you like and you would like to see him again. Before you go on a first date, read this article which is written by a man who has been on countless first dates and can tell you what does not work. If you are seeking casual sex with a man, ignore what I say here and do what you want as it is not difficult to seduce most men. If, on the other hand you are looking...
Improve your communication skills, improve your relationships
Apr 12
Most people believe that they know how to communicate when it comes to dating and relationship issues. This is ironic, since most people have never been trained in the art of communication. This oversight may explain why very few people monitor their communication skills or understand it’s effect on their loved one. In previous articles, we have observed that our relationship style, which...
